This year, my main goal is to just be genuinely happy, flaws and all. I’m done pretending everything is fine when it's not, and I'm done following what everyone else is doing. Happiness doesn't come from having everything everyone else has, and that's okay! I just want to stay positive and keep the peace in my life. So, I'm pressing pause to focus on making 2018 the best year yet. Here's what I’m doing differently:
No more holding grudges
I've always wanted to let go of the negativity I've been holding onto—it's just not healthy. This year, I've realized it's so much better to forgive and forget. Why should I let someone who wronged me have any power over me? This is the year of being sincere, forgiving, and just being happy. Let's go, 2018!
Go to sleep when I’m actually tired
How many times do we almost fall asleep on the couch because we're just feeling lazy? I'm definitely guilty of that. But from now on, I'm only going to bed when I'm truly tired, not just lazy. A good night's sleep means I'll wake up feeling refreshed and ready to take on the day.
Start journaling again
I've started journaling again, and it feels so good. I had stopped for a while, but I picked it back up last November, and wow—what a difference. It's like my therapy! Writing down my thoughts really helps me see things more clearly and gives me that calm, peaceful vibe. Definitely sticking with this one.
Save and budget better
I've been wanting to save for years, but honestly, my love for spending always got in the way. Not this year, though! I've started small but steady with saving and budgeting, and I'm already seeing some progress. I want to save more, spend less, and not be left with just 20 ringgit at the end of the month!
Keep my circle small
It's so important to surround yourself with positive people who lift you up. I've realized that having 2 or 3 close friends is more than enough for me. They spread good vibes, support my goals, and make me feel great about myself. If you have these kinds of people in your life, hold onto them and be happy <3
Start the day with water
I can't stress this enough—drinking water does wonders! It hydrates, boosts energy, and even gives your skin that glow. I'm cutting back on sugary drinks (even though I have my cravings LOL). Drinking water every morning is my new thing, and it's a game-changer.
Stop stressing over small stuff
When I start stressing over little things, I'll ask myself, "Will this even matter a year from now?" Life is way too short to sweat the small stuff. I just want to stay calm, avoid unnecessary wrinkles in my 20s, and keep things in perspective.
Meditate and have “me” time
I need to remember to look after myself, even when life gets busy. I'll make time to meditate and just relax. Taking long walks or late-night drives helps me clear my mind and find that inner peace. Life's too short to not be happy and calm.
Live minimally
This year, I'm all about living simply. Too much stuff stresses me out, and I want to enjoy life at a more relaxed, minimal pace. I don't need everything others have to feel content—simplicity is key!
Love all the list especially the first one. I realise I hold grudge a bit lately. Discover the reason but seems it is not easy to release it go. Haha. Fighting2 both of us!
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IT IS NOT easy to let go. I'm trying my best too, it keeps coming back somehow. But, I guess I have to try harder hehehe. Fighting2 :)
DeleteTalking about friends, it's always the most hardest part to choose the right one. Because the one that comes take advantages on us. Till now, I still can't puzzle why am I in this situation & why am I being too nice to people that arent worth it.
ReplyDeleteBabe, just remind yourself that at the end of the day it's all you. It's all about you, yourself. It's the beginning of new chapter, don't let anyone take advantage of you anymore. Okay? You know yourself better and don't waste your time with those kind of people <3
DeleteBanyak perkara Mai kena ubah untuk pastikan 2018 lebih productive, hihi. Very inspiring post.
ReplyDeleteLet's be productive together! Hehehe thank you Mai :)
DeleteSemoga apa yang awak ingin lakukan Insha Allah akan dipermudahkan..
ReplyDeleteAmeen~ thank you Shikin <3
DeleteLenne , I like the picture . Cantik !!!
ReplyDeleteNway, yes that’s true girl . Hold grudges not good for ourself . Just let go every negativity and you should be happy. Show the people that do mean to you see that you are happy and doesn’t matter what they do to you. And, later on they will move on never do bad things to you again.
Me too !!! Let’s save more . We can do it !!
Really a good post,Lenne.
And , happy new year <3
I like it even more! Pretty, right?
DeleteIt's never healthy for the soul. It's often bothering and I don't want that anymore. I'm trying to let go, to forgive those who has wronged me in the past. I've done my part and let them and Allah do the rest :)
Save and then can shop banyak banyak later hihihi.
Thank you so much. You can make a version of yours! I would like to read <3 Happy new year, Nadiah! x
I want to start saving as well. Since masuk degree, i dont know why i keep wasting my money on things i dont need hmm.
ReplyDeleteYou're not alone! Kita sama hihihi. Sometimes, susah nak get rid of impulse buying tau. Not good for my bank account haha!
DeletePut a water bottle next to your bed so that when you wake up, you can drink water first. Let's drink plenty of water and cut sugary drink together!
ReplyDeleteThat's exactly what I'm doing. I will always have water bottle next to me so I can reach it the moment I woke up :)
DeleteGreat post! I really like 'Don't stress about the small stuff..' and to start journaling I think that's be very therapeutic. Xx
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Thank you! I will not let stress or small stuff ruin my day this year. And yes, journaling is so therapeutic xx
Deletei love reading this kind of post.
ReplyDeleteThanks girl! xx
Delete" Don't hold grudges and don't stress over the small stuff " totally a great for you
ReplyDeleteBab saving tu kan. mcm errr. haha. busyra ni agak boros sikit. tp yahhh! tahun ni kena kuat dan kental. jgn boros sngt busyraaaa! hehe
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