25 Things To Know Before Turning 25

Okay, it's official – on November 23, 2021, I hit the big 2-5!

If you're curious how I celebrated my quarter-life milestone, it was super chill. I got a surprise gift from my partner Adan, surprise bouquets, cakes, tarts, lots of family time, and yes... we ordered KFC for the day. Simple, cozy, and just perfect for me.

Now, at 25, I don't exactly have a whole empire under my name or anything, and honestly? That's fine. I used to think I'd have everything figured out by now, but life doesn't work like that. What matters is I'm at peace with where I'm at – and that's the vibe I'm going with. Along the way, I've picked up a few lessons that I think are worth sharing. So here it is!

25 Things To Know Before Turning 25

1. Set realistic goals in unpredictable times. Don't stress yourself out over what you can't control.

2. You're so much bigger than your anxiety.

3. Never go grocery shopping on an empty stomach. Trust me on this one.

4. Stop comparing yourself to everyone. We're all on different journeys.

5. It's okay to cry. Let it out; it helps.

6. Love your body. Took me forever to figure this out, but it's worth it.

7. Time away from screens is the best time.

8. Get in touch with your feelings. Journaling works wonders.

9. Don't push yourself when you're overwhelmed. Rest is productive too.

10. Mental health matters. Don't waste time on stuff you don't enjoy.

11. Say something nice to yourself every day. Self-love is it.

12. Compliment people more. It's free, and it makes everyone feel good.

13. Stop checking your phone every 3 minutes. Life's happening right in front of you.

14. You don't have to be friends with everyone. Save your energy for the real ones.

15. Life's too short for a toxic job.

16. Live outside of social media. IRL > likes and comments.

17. Celebrate everything, even the small stuff.

18. Waking up early feels powerful. Start slow, though.

19. It's okay to change your mind. Plans from 18 don't have to stick forever.

20. Make a gratitude list.

21. Bad days don't last. And neither do good ones. Everything's temporary.

22. Stay curious. There's so much to learn.

23. The best investment is in yourself. And it doesn't cost a thing.

24. Being a quarter of a century isn't so bad. It's just the beginning of so much more.

25. There's always something new to explore. Keep going.

Why not read these too: 23-year-old me, 24-year-old me

Here's to being 25! What's one thing you've learned about life that you wish you knew sooner?